At Home in Both Homes, Without Dreading Handovers

Words for telling them, easier handovers, and helping your child feel at home in each place. Every age from 2 to 10.
Supports
Feeling safe, feeling close
Ages
Ages 2 to 10. One PDF with every age inside: tap your child's age to go straight to their guide. Siblings of different ages are covered.
Format
A full guide and a quick guide for each age: 2 to 3, 4 to 6 and 7 to 10
Sources
Sources and context are listed at the end of every guide.
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Plain words and everyday steps, with the sources listed at the end.
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Sound Familiar?

Handover time. Your child screams and clings to your neck. The other parent is waiting at the door.
Your child comes back from the other home, and nothing goes right all evening.
Sunday evening, back from the other home. Your child is wound up and cries over nothing.
Friday afternoon. The bag is packed. “I don’t want to go. You can’t make me.”

The Moment

Inside: a full guide and a quick guide for each age: 2 to 3, 4 to 6 and 7 to 10. Choose your child's age inside. Siblings of different ages are covered. The guide assumes your child is safe in both homes.

What you receive

Everything inside, for every age from 2 to 10.

Telling them

Honest words for divorce at each age, including “not your fault”.

Handovers

Handovers that are easier on your child.

Loved in both homes

Helping your child feel at home in each place, nights included.

Out of the middle

Keeping your child out of the middle, and off either side.

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