Child development, made usable

Children thrive when they are known.

The world your child will grow up in is uncertain. The capacities that carry them through it are not. KNOWN brings together research from developmental psychology, attachment science, neuroscience, public health, and motivation science into one framework, so you can understand the child in front of you and give them what they need to grow those capacities. For any future.

Find what your child needs
The quiz: 3 minutes, free. See what your child may need most right now.
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How KNOWN works

You cannot demand a capacity while neglecting the conditions that grow it.

01

Conditions

What a child needs around them

Safety, connection, attunement, belonging, autonomy, appropriate challenge, and contribution.

02

Practices

What adults do to create those conditions

Model and lend calm, hold the boundary, talk it through, make room, hand over, and repair.

03

Capacities

What grows within the child

Self understanding, self regulation, agency, adaptability with integrity, relational capacity, discernment, generative capacity, and meaning making.

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Tools

Start where you are.

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The KNOWN course

Regulate, Read, Respond

The KNOWN method, step by step: find your own calm, read what your child needs, and respond. For parents of children ages 2 to 10.

Lifelines

Help for the hard moment

One hard moment per guide, from tantrums to bedtime fears, with every age from 2 to 10 inside.

$22 each
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Kits

For your child's biggest need

Seven Kits, one for each everyday need, with guides for you inside. The quiz shows which one fits.

$47 each
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The KNOWN Library

Every guide in one place

All 24 KNOWN guides, every age from 2 to 10 inside, so the next guide is there when what is hard changes.

$129
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Sources

Every guide shows its sources.

KNOWN uses peer reviewed research that keeps your child's wellbeing first. Each guide ends with Sources and context, so you can see what it draws on.

How KNOWN chooses research
Peer reviewed
Research that has been repeated or broadly agreed on
Child first
Only sources that keep a child's selfhood and wellbeing first
Sources you can check
Every guide names the studies behind it, so you can read them yourself
For parents

Not sure where to start?

Answer a few questions about your child. See the need that could use the most care right now, and where to start.

Takes a few minutes.
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Learning at home

Teaching at home?

Learning belongs to your child. KNOWN helps you make home a place where your child feels safe, close and free to try, at every age from 2 to 10.

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Organizations

Bringing KNOWN to your community?

Read the white paper on the KNOWN Framework and the research behind it, written to share with your team.

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